A Shotgun Wedding for Jamie Lynn Spears & Casey Aldridge?

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Is Jamie Lynn Spears going to be 16, pregnant and married? Possibly, says a source close to the Spears clan.

Jamie Lynn and her babbydaddy, Casey Aldridge "want to get married really bad,” the insider told Access Hollywood. They did add, thank goodness, that the couple's parents “don’t think they should. They are too young. They should wait.”

They say the problem is that Jamie Lynn is living in a dream world, thinking her life with Casey and the baby is going to be some sort of romantic fairytale. She has “the mind of a teenager. She doesn’t understand the ramifications. She’s just a child with not a lick of sense,” the family friend said. "There’s no reasoning with her,” she said of the Britney's sister, and that Jamie Lynn is, “not thinking 10 years down the road, not even two years down the road.”

A wedding for a sixteen year old? I can't even imagine. There's just so many things wrong with that. What would they serve at the reception -- chicken nuggets and juice boxes? And if the bride is sixteen are the flower girls zygotes?
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48 Comments

Kay said:

Zygotes. HA!

Shaniqua said:

Zygotes? Funny! I don't think they should get married. You are different in your 20's, 30's, etc...knowing what you want at 16 is an oxymoron.

Carrie said:

DON'T DO IT Jaime Lynn!!! Seriously. Bad. Idea.

islandgirl46 said:

i don't get what u guys r talking about...do u want the grl to have a baby w/out a daddy? she got herself into this, i always turn out just like her sis. and she has.

Are you on crack? said:

Just because they might not marry, doesn't mean the dad can't be in the childs life.

Nancy Drew said:

I honestly don't know...marriage is a crapshoot no matter what ages the people are. Maybe they SHOULD get married--Beyonce's sister did when she found herself pregnant.

LuvMyJolie said:

Aww I remember being 16 (not pregnant of course) and having the same feeling, wanting to marry the guy of my dreams, of course my mother wasnt lettin it happen and hers shouldnt either. This situation doesnt seem out of the norm, i mean guys she is only 16... dont u remember when u were 16 and felt like ur first boyfriend was "the one" and u couldnt imagine life without him?! LOL

Beyonce sister tried to do that and they ended up divorcing 1 1/2 year later. Take ur time jamie-Lynn, u have all the time in the world to get married!!!

MelissaJ said:

I agree she shouldn't get married yet, i mean having a baby is stressful enough, much less at 16. And getting married takes a lot of work, and is stressful those first couple years. I think if she got married now, it would be to much on her. She needs to adjust to having a baby first, and then if they are still in love and want to get married in few years, then it would be easier to make the marriage work, without having a new born too.

Reed said:

I couldn't have said it better myself Melissa J. Having a baby that young and then adding a marriage on top of that will be so hard. They don't have to be married for the father to be a huge part of the baby's life.

Frank said:

I get the feeling if she does get married, that she will have even more kids. Not saying a big family is a bad thing, but her age is of concern. Luckily her family and she have money, so it isn't anything like the typical teenage pregnancies where they will have to sacrifice almost everything to make it work.

alex said:

I feel that she should take some time and think it through. At sixteen she should enjoy being a teenager first. Sorry to say her parents should take a more active roll in there children's life. Her mom did not try to DO her best being a parent is the most difficult one.BUT MOST OF ALL A MOM'S JOB IS TO GUIDE YOUR CHILDREN TO THE RIGHT DIRECTION.I am a mother of two my daughter is 17 and i was a young mom
but I TRY MY BEST TO BE GOOD A GOOD ROLE MODEL TO MY KIDS.

TrySuzanne said:

She's only 16, is that legal?

Carol said:

i dont understand what the big deal is like fuck...there are more teenagers having kids now then adults its a fact of life..saying dont do dont do it...thats making her think she cant and we're always being told to set our minds to something and we can do it well i think jamie would make a great mom! im 17 and have 2 kids and i dont give a fuck bout u ppl have to say bout it..ive had them theyre beautiful and i would never regret keeping them...if her man stays with her than oki...but jus cuz he stays doesnt mean he will help ...alot of guys jus spend time playing video games r getting high or w.e ....either way she could be with him but still parenting alone...ALL THE POWER TO YOU JAMIE!!! YOU CAN DO IT!...looking down on us teen mothers does nothin!!! we dont care so how do u have the right to say she should wait..wut if this baby ends up being the best thing in her life? shes old enof to make her own decisions let her do wut she wants!! she not OUR family we cant tell her how she should run her life!

LaFawnDuh said:

You can be the best mom in the world and be a great role model and still have a "perfect" kid end up pregnant. She should not marry right now. Maybe later.

Trash Queen said:

Nancy Drew -- I love your comment -- marriage is a crapshoot -- hee hee -- I surely would not want to be in Jamie's shoes .

stace said:

my mother-in-law got married at 17 when she was pregnant...she now has 5 kids and is 45 and still happily married to the same man.

living proof that it does sometimes work

stephanie said:

dont get married because u dont know it if i will work out or not thrust me i got married at 18 and it didnt work out

stephanie said:

dont get married because u dont know it if i will work out or not thrust me i got married at 18 and it didnt work out

keepn' it real said:

Man, there are so many things wrong with this situation I don't even know where to start but just to say DON'T GET MARRIED!

I had a child at 15 yrs. old and we were pushed into getting married 'for the sake of the child' ... bad move. The physical violence started, drugs, alcohol, etc. (him, not me) Doggone mess, and for these ''kids'' to WANT to play house at such an early age *smh*... don't do it Jamie.

Kudos to the ones that it worked out for.

maggietalk said:

Getting married will fix the problem how? Everyone has there opinion as how or what Jamie-Lynn should do but ultimately its up to her she got herself into this situation and she will have to work her way to fix it. She is going to have a baby so what's the next step. Get herself into parenting classes and open her eyes take a look at the real world. Young girls everyday go through this problem Jamie-Lynn just has money to care for this child but money is not all you need..as we all have learned from big sis!!

andrea said:

I am a 20 years old and a mother of a beautiful little girl! I had her when I was 19 just out of high school! I must say that it was the best thing that ever happened to me! I am still with the father but we are not married! We do not feel rushed into such a big step. Its because we already took a big step having a baby. It all depends on the person and how well they handle stress! If she can take it then let her do what she wants! Other wise just hold off because people change and you might not like who they turn into!

gemini said:

come on..whats nxt? another britney?

gemini said:

come on..whats nxt? another britney?

!!!!!!!!!! said:

another screwball like her sister !!!!

Maire said:

I don't think they should get married right now because they are too young. I thought she wouldn't be like her sister, but I think she's slowly starting to.

Amanda said:

My best friend was 16 and has married her babies dad and has 4 more children and very happily married.

It's very hard for anyone to judge.

mom2three said:

This is gonna be a hard time for her right now. Maybe it would be a good idea for her to wait til after the baby comes, and she gets comfortable being a mom, and her hormones are settled...if they are still doing well, get married, by then she'll be 18, and if they stay out of Hollywood, they could probably make this work. I married at 19, and 15 yrs. later, were still going strong. I don't think many people can make a marriage work in Hollywood, its just too stressful, and crazy! Stay in Louisiana, and raise your baby, and have a normal life, Jamie!!!

sue said:

she is so nice .at least in my mind. Her profile and photos were found on
a millionaire&celeb dating site called"celeb m i ngl e. c om"last week!

HotNYCMomma said:

Marriage DOES NOT guarantee that the couple will stay together...if one wants to walk out, they will. Marriage is not the same as it was 20 years ago...people would get married at 17 or 18, have kids and stay together til the end but times have changed. Many 16 years old today are not ready to handle the pressures of marriage.

Jae said:

I cannot even comment. I really cannot believe we are in a world where a 16 yr. old pregnant is EXCITING news... sheesh!

sarahlaw said:

I don't think it's a bad idea, if that's what they want then they should have at it. I mean they are having a child together and that child deserves to have their parents together. However, three years ago when I was 16 I never thought about spending the rest of my life with a certain someone and decided that I wouldn't until I am almost 30, but hell I don't the future. But this isn't about me it's about Jamie Lynn, and if that's what they both want then I support them after all, they seem like they're both very excited and make each other extremely happy, so I say why not. So what if she's still a kid (aren't we all still kids, in a way). I mean, she's having a baby, so she's old enough to make her own decisions. However, I do see y'alls point, but hey let her learn from her own mistakes, after all, coming right down to it, that's the only way we all learn because we're all just too damn stubbarn to listen to our parents.

nerd said:

you totally made my LIFE with the zygotes commment! :)

jason said:

I really cannot believe we are in a world where a 16 yr. old pregnant is exciting news.

jason said:

I really cannot believe we are in a world where a 16 yr. old pregnant is exciting news.

jason said:

I really cannot believe we are in a world where a 16 yr. old pregnant is exciting news.

jason said:

I really cannot believe we are in a world where a 16 yr. old pregnant is exciting news.

jason said:

I really cannot believe we are in a world where a 16 yr. old pregnant is exciting news.

jason said:

I really cannot believe we are in a world where a 16 yr. old pregnant is exciting news.

charle said:

whatever, she is beautiful. last time i signed in www.sugarmommymeet.com and there were always many men talking about her good... you know it is a site where rich women can seek young cute men and men can find extramarital affairs....and they are picky, but they still like her.

Renae said:

No comment - no morals; don't tell me they didn't know what they were doing. Sad scenario. Babies need BOTH parents. She really messed up her young life. I know it takes two, but she's off to a really bad start in her adult life and I would have thought she would have realized by her sister's major screw-ups not to follow suit. I really feel for her poor unborn baby, it's the baby's future I'm concerned for. Big mistake, Jaimee Lynn

WHATEVER said:

Teenagers get pregnant all the time...Would this be all over the internet if Britney was a good mother and wasnt doing so many off the wall things this year? Probably but I guarantee it would not generate so much negeative attention. I think people are drawn to it only cause it shows how that family is.

Brenda/bregeott said:

Did anybody say "Love?" So she's gonna be a mommy. That's a tough job, but it is worth the work it takes to raise a child. So what's new? Just like WHATEVER just texted, "tennagers get pregnant all the time."
Boy this family is Fucked up, but maybe Jamie Lyn will be a better mother than Britney Cunt. I only wished she had waited and had not had unportected sex.
The deed is done so on to having a healthy baby and being the best parents you can be.
Marriage is a serious commitment. For better or for worse in sickness and in health, but it can be everlasting depending on the two people involved. I think she should wait until she is mature enough to be a wife.
I wish the both of them luck and please take good care of the baby. The baby's needs comes first. Good bye teen years. Hello adult years. Oh Jamie...you must understand that the baby will take up the time you use to have just being a teen. Be strong girl and make that dick that got ya pregnant change some baby's diapers too.

Brenda/bregeott said:

Did anybody say "Love?" So she's gonna be a mommy. That's a tough job, but it is worth the work it takes to raise a child. So what's new? Just like WHATEVER just texted, "tennagers get pregnant all the time."
Boy this family is Fucked up, but maybe Jamie Lyn will be a better mother than Britney Cunt. I only wished she had waited and had not had unportected sex.
The deed is done so on to having a healthy baby and being the best parents you can be.
Marriage is a serious commitment. For better or for worse in sickness and in health, but it can be everlasting depending on the two people involved. I think she should wait until she is mature enough to be a wife.
I wish the both of them luck and please take good care of the baby. The baby's needs comes first. Good bye teen years. Hello adult years. Oh Jamie...you must understand that the baby will take up the time you use to have just being a teen. Be strong girl and make that dick that got ya pregnant change some baby's diapers too.

Brenda/bregeott said:

Did anybody say "Love?" So she's gonna be a mommy. That's a tough job, but it is worth the work it takes to raise a child. So what's new? Just like WHATEVER just texted, "tennagers get pregnant all the time."
Boy this family is Fucked up, but maybe Jamie Lyn will be a better mother than Britney Cunt. I only wished she had waited and had not had unportected sex.
The deed is done so on to having a healthy baby and being the best parents you can be.
Marriage is a serious commitment. For better or for worse in sickness and in health, but it can be everlasting depending on the two people involved. I think she should wait until she is mature enough to be a wife.
I wish the both of them luck and please take good care of the baby. The baby's needs comes first. Good bye teen years. Hello adult years. Oh Jamie...you must understand that the baby will take up the time you use to have just being a teen. Be strong girl and make that dick that got ya pregnant change some baby's diapers too.

Leigh said:

It's good they want to get married and raise their child together, but I don't think getting married at 16 is such a great idea. They should wait to be married to be sure their relationship will survive. If they are truly in love the relationship will last. The father can still be in both their lives and help support and raise his baby. Young marriages usually don't make it, so it would be best for them to wait. Parenting isn't easy and Jamie should really consider letting the baby's daddy help out with all aspects of being a father and see how that goes first.

D said:

Marryin young is not a wrong thing, neither is having a baby , its sad tht you have so much responsibility at such a young age... and i respect teenage mother who can keep it up under the pressure of leading a normal life (or smthg close to it) and looking aftr their children... but when u get married only bcos "its good for the child" you forget abt yourself and then suddenly you wake up and realise u want to be happy too and being happy is what the child needs more than the birth father being thr..... and by the time u realise u dont wanna be with him(which u will cos ur jus freaking 16 whn u make such a big decision) your child will be attached u will be attched and wat ever anyone says goin thru a divorce whn children are involed sucks big time!!!
there is the off chance this might work but jus dont jump into marriage... i must say teenagers are not always as commited like stace's mom in law ws...i mean seriouisly thr is a handful of teenage marriage which have survived...
bottom line:dont marry wait it out

brit said:

getting married at 16, whats gonna come out of 4 more kids before she is 20??? I think it would be fine for her to marry if she was 18 but 16 she hasn't even graduated high school!! She should have waited before having sex.

Roscoeblu said:

We can all sit around and judge every celebrity on this blog but that will not change WHAT or WHO they do! Of course she should have waited to have sex but it's too late to talk about that now, hopefully for Jamie Lynn and her unborn child's sake she will be mature enough to make the proper choices for herself and her baby. Things really change for a woman or teen who is pregnant. Life will no longer be about Jamie Lynn and hopefully Jamie Lynn will realize this... Babies should always come first and now it will be her responsibility to make sure this child comes before ANYTHING she wants, needs or desires. I wish Jamie Lynn all the STRENGTH in this world, I'm sure that's what she will need the most and $$$ can't buy that.
As long as Jamie Lynn don't take any advice from Big Sis on parenting she might be able to make it work.
TWO WRONGS DON'T MAKE A RIGHT...
Don't get married...
GOOD LUCK!

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