A "friend of Jen" is her PR rep, in another words, it's Aniston herself.

Jen is partly to blame--she knew John Mayer's reputation before they started to date. It's too late now, but years ago, when Brad started to have a wandering eye, Jennifer should have gotten pregnant. I think it would have made a difference to Brad Pitt. Unlike some celebs, I doubt he'd have left her under the circumstances. Anyway, hope Jennifer doesn't replace John Mayer with another "toy boy".

I'm sorry, but if your not ready to have a child than I don't think you should have one just to keep a man!! No offense Diane but that was a really dumb thing to say.

I'm sorry, but if your not ready to have a child than I don't think you should have one just to keep a man!! No offense Diane but that was a really dumb thing to say.

Regarding "crab"'s comment (above) in response to mine...ordinarily, I'd be the first to agree that someone shouldn't have a baby to keep a marriage together. HOWEVER, Jen did know that Brad really wanted children. Assuming she didn't NOT want kids (after all, she did marry someone who did) it would have been beneficial to have started the family. After all, at that economic level, there aren't any financial concerns in play. As I say, too late now. It would have spared her hooking up with John Mayer and who knows how many other losers.

Nice going John... you may have alienated the best person to come into your life. Open mouth.. insert foot.

From what I understand by reading all these blogs, she did want kids but she wasn't ready at the time!! I think you have to be ready for something like that!

Mayer is gay if you look at Perez Hilton and he kissing big time and read his column. Perez Hilton has said that long before Jen started dating him. It's true .. the pics aren't fake and Mayer's tongueing the guy. Jennifer is a beautiful and classy lady who isn't going to make a second mistake as she did with cheating Pitt who isn't looking too good himself lately. Hey, Mayer has skimpy shoulders for a guy and has a strange looking face, the guy is not a class act and runs his mouth to get PR. John Mayer is getting the worst press out of this and he's too stupid to know it. Is it coincidental that his buddy Pete also said he was into being gay earlier in his career? Coincidence they are friends or is it that Mayer likes putting women down and using them. I never liked him. He looks dirty. Jen cleaned him up but he's made enemies from his stupid rhetoric where he's lying big time. Jennifer broke up with him. I know her closest friend and she'd had it even before the dust up in the spa.

Mayer is gay if you look at Perez Hilton and he kissing big time and read his column. Perez Hilton has said that long before Jen started dating him. It's true .. the pics aren't fake and Mayer's tongueing the guy. And Jen is not to blame, she liked him...and may have thought he was perfect when he was lying to her. Gay Mayer has to have women in his life so he has groupies to build his career. He's a freak and I never liked him. Jennifer is a beautiful and classy lady who isn't going to make a second mistake as she did with cheating Pitt who isn't looking too good himself lately. Hey, Mayer has skimpy shoulders for a guy and has a strange looking face, the guy is not a class act and runs his mouth to get PR. John Mayer is getting the worst press out of this and he's too stupid to know it. Is it coincidental that his buddy Pete also said he was into being gay earlier in his career? Coincidence they are friends or is it that Mayer likes putting women down and using them. I never liked him. He looks dirty. Jen cleaned him up but he's made enemies from his stupid rhetoric where he's lying big time. Jennifer broke up with him. I know her closest friend and she'd had it even before the dust up in the spa.

Marriage is a joint venture. Both parents should agree on when to have and how to raise children. Jennifer must have had a sixth sense about having children with a man that would ultimately end up cheating. And as for John, from what I've read he seems to be a player and master manipulator. I'm sure he's quite experienced in telling women what they want to hear until he's done with the relationship. Real men don't kiss and tell. I believe he enjoys the publicity he's gotten from his many loves (including Perez Hilton).

Yes, marriage is a joint venture, which is why people should be as sure as possible that they can overcome their differences before they enter into it. Only a very few people in the world know if Brad did anything inappropriate before he and Jen separated: the break up of their marriage was the inevitable result of two people realizing too late that there's a big difference between wanting 2 versus 7 kids, eventually versus now, and realizing that the necessary compromise would leave both people unhappy.

I can't believe that someone would suggest getting pregnant to keep a man from making his eyes wander. She'll have a baby if/when she's good and ready and not a moment sooner and not because it's what someone else wants. John is an ass through and through. Someone suggested John Stamos the other day and I agree! Somebody set these two up!

JA is the least private person, just the most cowardly. It's always her "friends" who bad mouth everyone on her behalf. Irritating!

Look, Jennifer Aniston married Brad Pitt knowing he wanted a family. Just how long did she expect him to wait? I still contend she should have kept her part of the bargain unless, of course, she doesn't want children. Some of the writers above suggest she wasn't ready...well, she isn't that young. I'm not saying that anyone should have a baby to keep a man--I only contend that if she'd agreed on kids, what the heck was the holdup? At that financial level, you can hire all the nannies and nursemaids you want. I can't stand Angelina Jolie so please don't think I'm on her side. I only say that no one should marry under false pretenses.

Why's everyone blaming Jen? Look at John Mayer. He's been through Cameron Diaz and Jessica Sipson. What the heck is wrong with HIM?!? What a jerk. Maybe Jen does want kids but at least she didn't get pregnant to keep him.

please jen knew what she was getting into so what she gets ..................... good luck. why cant she keep a man have u ever wonder?

I agree with Diane AND Crab. You dont have a baby just to 'save' a marriage. But I think the chicken came before the egg here. I dont think Brad Pitt had a 'wandering eye'. He got married with the full intention of starting a family, and he told everyone that would listen that very fact for years. Jennifer had to have known how important it was to him, and somehow must have given him the impression she was on board, or I can just about guarantee you he wouldn't have married her. I think his 'wandering eye' came after it became clear she wasn't ready for a family, and he decided he needed to move on to someone who had the same goals and values. If Jennifer had had a child, I would bet almost anything that they would still be together. Both seem to be good people. And both are living with their choices!

I know for a fact that Jen broke up with John, not the other way around. John knew that Jen would keep it all very private, but he got scared and decided to air his dirty laundry for all to hear (lies). He was scared that it would leak out that Jen had broke up with him and he would lose his woman lovin rep. That shows he is very immature. Jen needs a real man and is working on that as we type. Good riddance to John. Jen is just fine with all of this. John is said to be very upset and will try anything to win her back. "Hate it for ya John. It will never happen dude". The fact that Jen did the breaking up didn't come out in the mags because Candace Trunzo is such a nasty skanky ass whorebag that is so jealous of Aniston and the fact that Jen won't talk and never will. It kills Candace that Jen has such a great rep and will not share with the likes of a scumbag like her.